A Pain of a Mother and a Wife

If the tears falling from my eyes can ease the pain that my love ones having right now,

I will cry till it's gone...

If the pain I'm bearing today can ease what my love ones suffering,

I will bear it till they become fine...

If I can take what they are feeling tonight,

I will get it so that they can feel better now...

Seeing them suffering from their illness breaks my heart, 

And I will take all the consequences just to bring back their normal life...

quizbox.com

It's half passed eight in the morning when I decided to do some blog hopping, and there are things that I've realized (for whatever they are, I will share it to you after this blog).

One of my friend's blog was entitled as quizbox.com, in which I know that it is Q & A site. From there, I stopped reading her blog and visits the said site. When I saw this link, I click it and answered some few questions. After sometime, this is what the link concluded:

Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?

Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.

What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.


And honestly, most of the information given are all true and it is the exact description of who I am...

By the way, the link is entitled as Getting to know yourself better.

Nosebleed

Its been a year since the last time I experience the “Nosebleed” joke.

I was with our Branch Manager then, when I first encounter the “Nosebleed” term…

Iba pala ang feeling kapag ang kausap mo is born and raised in Britain na super naman maka-accent… nakaka-“Brain Freeze”!!!!

Sumakit ang ulo ko sa pakikipag usap ko sa kanya. Sa billis ng salita nya na may British Accent, ewan ko na lang kung saan ako pinulot nung mga panahong yun..

Anyway, as years goes by, na-used din naman ako sa kanya especially with his British Accent and thanks to him dahil kaya ko ng makipagsabayan ng English sa kanila kahit wala akong accent ng katulad sa kanila and for sure di na ako mangangapa at magwa-wonder kung ano ung mga pinagsasasabi nila.

Pero akala ko lang pala un… kasi may tumalo pa sa Branch Manager naming Briton…

Proud to be Pinoy pa naman ako,,, Im not against naman sa mga taong di marunong mag English,,, kahit din naman ako minsan na-o-off grammar or spelling ako. What to do kung un lang ung kaya nila di ba.. respeto sa mga kabayan natin na sumusubok na magsalita ng ingles para makasabay sa mga ibang lahi...

Pero naman kasi.. may mga kabayan tayo na nakapunta lang sa ibang bansa, kung maka-ingles eh bonggang bongga… masabi lang na nanggaling sila sa ibang bansa o nasa ibang bansa sila, kahit mali mali na at nagkanda buhol buhol na ang dila nila sa pag sasalita ng inglres, sige pa rin sila, maisingit lang ang pag-i-ingles…

Ok lang sana kung ang salitang ingles na lang ang paraan para maintindihan sila, ang kaso hindi eh… pwede din naman silang magtagalog kasi pinoy naman din ang kausap nila..

Ok lang din kung ibang lahi ang kausap nila dahil kahit naman ang ibang lahi minsan na-o-off grammar din naman, pero naman, kapag kabayan na ang kausap, sana man lang magtagalog na lang lalo pa’t sa email, bb or sms lang naman kau nag uusap…

Ok lang naman kung haluan ng ingles ang mga sinasabi mo, pero naman, ilugar naman.. di kasi nakaka-impress..

Eto, iilang mensahe na nareceived ko na sadya namang nakapagpasakit ng ulo ko…

"I know hard to believe me but the truth it is?”
(Ano daw?)

“I’ll wait to guess you later…”
(Hihintayin mo ako para hulaan mamaya???)


Hay naku!!! Iilan lang ito sa mga mensaheng natanggap ko, nabura ko na kasi ung iba.. pero promise, masakit sa ulo kapag ang kausap mo, ganito…

CLOSURE

Closure (psychology)
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Closure or need for closure are psychological terms that describe the desire or "need" some individuals have for information that will allow them to conclude an issue that had previously (for them at least) been clouded in ambiguity and uncertainty. Upon reaching this conclusion, they are now able to attain a state of epistemic "closure".


Do an ended relationship requires closure even if it was ended long time back?
Do we really need to do it?

A friend told me that it is better to have it, and the other says, if you have an ended the relationship then there is no need for the "closure".

I read an article about this (http://forevertwentysomethings.com/) and it says at the bottom of this article is,,, "Closure doesnt really works. It only gives you two things.. 1- bring your ex back in your life furthering the moving on process… and 2- make you look like a moron...)

Since I follow my first friend's advise, and it was too late to read the said article, sending a closure note to one of my ex'es really made me look like a moron or id rather it to be called "stupid".

So to all the girls out there and looking for a "CLOSURE" thing with your ex'es... better NOT to have them..

Read the article and you will understand why...

anong petsa na???

ai! natutuwa ako promise... 

akalain mo un 3 taon na ang nakalipas at eto ngayon ako muli na namang tumitipa...

hay,,, sayang nga lang at nabawasan ako ng avid reader pero im sure naman na kahit di niya dalawin ang blog site ko, eh alam nya kung anong ginagawa ko.

nakakatuwa namang malaman na 2 blog account pala ang ginamit ko sa blogspot bukod pa un sa friendster blog at sa multiply blog.. hihihi...

sana mainspire ulit akong gumawa ng tula, magsulat kung ano ano at maglahad ng kwento...

hanggang sa muli! nagtanggal lang ako ng agiw. ikaw ba namang di dumalaw sa bahay mo ng 3 taon eh...

paalam!